Update 9: 1 Month Follow-up
It’s been a month since I’ve been back in the states, trying to make sense of what I have experienced this summer as well as trying to figure out how to go about “normal” life again. As much as I’d love to say this past month has been easy, and I’ve adjusted back into life really well, I’m going to be real and honest and say, it hasn’t been easy, and I haven’t adjusted well. I’ve struggled to find words to really tell people how my summer was. I’ve felt awkward around the people I’m usually the most comfortable with. I’ve felt out of place in the places I considered home. I’ve had an aching feeling to be somewhere I’m not. I’ve thought more times than not, “there’s so much more than this”. I’ve struggled with the fact that life in Costa Rica is going on without me. I’ve been struggling to find a meaning for my life here in Illinois now.
Over the summer I knew the things I was witnessing were changing me, but I didn’t know how that was going to affect my life when I returned home. I’m still working on processing everything I saw and experienced those 6ish weeks in CR. I sometimes feel like being in Costa Rica was some sort of weird dream that didn’t really happen, like some distant memory I’m clinging onto for dear life. It’s been difficult for me to look around and see how people in America live. It’s all for personal pleasure and gain. Life is all about going out with friends, going shopping, going to the movies, buying $200 concert tickets, ranting and raving about the newest Iphone coming out (I’ve once been guilty of doing every single one of those).Now, I constantly feel like I’m missing something. The things I used to love to do no longer bring any enjoyment. My heart is constantly longing for something bigger, something better than this. Something this world cannot attain. Life here in America has honestly begun to freak me out, it feels surreal to me, like it’s a dream I’m going to wake up from. The American lifestyle, the one I’ve been accustomed to for 22 years, has been completely shattered in just 6 weeks of spending time in another culture and I’m struggling to pick up the pieces.
However, as uncomfortable and awkward as I sometimes feel, I’m thankful for the wisdom and understanding God has granted to me. What a blessing to be shown a small glimpse of God’s purpose for creation, a blessing not everyone will see in their lifetime. I’ve learned that my feelings and unwillingness to fit back in are something God is using to keep me on the right path, the path that he has set before me. I’m beginning to accept that being on the right path means not fitting in with the world around me, and that is something I need to get comfortable with. Following God and his call for all believers to reach the nations means becoming comfortable with the really uncomfortable. God has used this summer to really open my eyes and give me a passion for living life to the fullest, which means following his call wherever that may lead, and however awkward it may make me feel. I know this summer in Costa Rica is just the beginning, and I’m so excited to see where it takes me.
A little update on where I am right now, I’m soon to be starting a new job as well as being a trainer for the local soccer club. Life has been a little crazy this past month applying for jobs, going to interviews, and looking for a new car. As soon as life settles in a little I will be finishing my application for the 23 month term with the EFCA to go back and catch up with the other half of my heart that I left in Costa Rica this summer. As of right now, I feel as though God is directing me to take the next step in missions and pursue a longer term to serve in Costa Rica, but I guess we’ll just have to wait and see 🙂
Thank you everyone for following, and supporting me on this journey. And for caring enough to stick it out and read my blogs, you all are the best:)
“God has set apart His people from before the foundation of the world to be His chosen and peculiar inheritance. We are sanctified in Christ Jesus by the Holy Spirit when he subdues our corruptions, imparts to us grace, and leads us onward in the divine walk and life of faith. Christian men/women are not to be used for anything but God. They are set-apart people; they are vessels of mercy, they are not for the devil’s use, not for their own use, not for the world’s use, but for their Master’s use. He has made them on purpose to be used entirely, solely and wholly for Him. O Christian people, be holy, for Christ is holy. Do not pollute that holy Name wherewith you are named. Let your family life, your personal life, your business life, be as holy as Christ your Lord would have it be. Shall saints be shams when sinners are so real?” -Charles Spurgeon